I just had a chat with a good buddy last night and we had this conversation about his ex. It was a really sad experience from my friend as he told me he really liked this girl but somehow over the course of the 4 year relationship, she changed. She changed in a way that she realized that money was very important and she should be finding a boyfriend who is rich. One part of it was that she also had a friend who probably wasn't that pretty and all but still had a rich boyfriend. So thinking that even her ugly friend could get a rich guy, why not her? hence she cheated on my buddy and went out with this other rich guy who was courting her at that time.
Thing is, I've known my friend for quite some time and my honest opinion is that he is a really nice person, a great friend, and definitely one who treats his girlfriend very well. But he wasn't rich. It's just sickening to know that a girl would actually give in to money and throw away a boyfriend who loves and threats her very well.
Anyway, they (my friend and ex) broke up and the girl was actually in a relationship with the rich guy until just yesterday. I was told it wasn't even a year into the relationship and the reason for the break up was because she did not like his attitude and all. Well, I knew all this because this girl was actually looking for my friend after the break up but I'm just really glad that my friend is already with someone better who appreciates him for himself and not for what he has. Hence, here's one quote from a friend of mine (forgot who) and it goes "Date the guy, NOT date his car". Well, you get the drill.
Finally, we do realize that we don't really appreciate what is in front of us until its gone. People are usually so caught up in themselves and their own life that they forgot to think about the people around em. And from my friends experience, I should probably say that as much as you like a person and if the person doesn't appreciate you, you should probably stop wasting your time as there would be that someone out there still kindly in wait for you to really take and appreciate what you have to give.
Thing is, I've known my friend for quite some time and my honest opinion is that he is a really nice person, a great friend, and definitely one who treats his girlfriend very well. But he wasn't rich. It's just sickening to know that a girl would actually give in to money and throw away a boyfriend who loves and threats her very well.
Anyway, they (my friend and ex) broke up and the girl was actually in a relationship with the rich guy until just yesterday. I was told it wasn't even a year into the relationship and the reason for the break up was because she did not like his attitude and all. Well, I knew all this because this girl was actually looking for my friend after the break up but I'm just really glad that my friend is already with someone better who appreciates him for himself and not for what he has. Hence, here's one quote from a friend of mine (forgot who) and it goes "Date the guy, NOT date his car". Well, you get the drill.
Finally, we do realize that we don't really appreciate what is in front of us until its gone. People are usually so caught up in themselves and their own life that they forgot to think about the people around em. And from my friends experience, I should probably say that as much as you like a person and if the person doesn't appreciate you, you should probably stop wasting your time as there would be that someone out there still kindly in wait for you to really take and appreciate what you have to give.
1 comment:
oww...so sad...4years gone...
but thank god ur buddy had found the one who really appreciate him...
well,dun be affected by only some stories in ur life k?there might have the one who really appreciate you even though u r not as rich as the other rich man..dun think too much la you... :)
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